I wrote an extensive article on the subject of Aftercare for the Dominant and you can read it on the BDSM Training Academy blog here: https://bdsmtrainingacademy.com/yes-dominants-need-aftercare-too/
There have been hundreds of articles on the subject of aftercare, but very few that are focused on dominants. As someone who has experienced both sides of this, I can say that the needs are different, but still valid.
I put a lot of work into this article and I’m proud of the way it turned out. Please go check it out and tell the good people at the BDSM Training Academy what you think.
I hope you like it!
Asher Lake and Dominatrix Boss
For those of you who are not aware, I created a pen name about five years ago and released an erotic femdom book titled Dominatrix Boss, under the name Asher Lake. Since releasing that book it’s received some decent reviews, had good sales, and has opened up all kinds of doors for me.
That book made a ripple in the femdom fiction niche (a small pond) but I’m happy with how it did and I have really big plans for it and other books in the near future.
So, if you’re interested in learning more, and keep up with what’s happening next, here are a few updates.
Asher Lake Newsletter and Afternoon Delight
It should be no surprise that I did the illustration for the Afternoon Delight short story. It’s a kinky femdom story set a week after Dominatrix Boss. If you’re interested in my fiction writing, Afternoon Delight is absolutely free to anyone who signs up to the Asher Lake Mailing list.
Click here to subscribe and get Afternoon Delight for free: Subscribe to the Asher Lake Mailing List
I have a big announcement coming in the May 15th edition of the Asher Lake Mailing List, so if you want to keep up on the news join now!
New FemDom Resource List
One of the great things about Dominatrix Boss was presenting realistic (but fictional) femdom scenes and relationships to a whole new audience.
I put a FemDom Resource List in the back of Dominatrix Boss and now I’ve added an updated list to the Asher Lake site here: https://asherlake.net/femdom-resource-list/
If you know of some non-fiction FemDom resources that should be added to the list please contact: asher@asherlake.net
New Art!
Here is my commissioned KinkInk piece of Mistress Michelle Lacy and DrPonyBatBond.
This was a very successful commissioned KinkInk portrait of Mistress Mia from Dallas. I was so happy with how the painting turned out.
This was an experimental piece featuring Ivy Fox.
New Shoot!
I have a new model and a huge shoot that will take place on May 5th! I can’t wait to share what we come up with. I will post here and on my main website: www.DirkHooper.com